i know my husband cheated but he won't admit it

A lot of women prefer men as friends as they are less judgmental, often kinder, and more empathetic. This is why I commented on your post (experience). Received blow jobs from strangers at truck stops. However, he has cheated on me five times now. He came home the end of January and we tried, but he wouldnt give her up. Thanks!:). Im not sure if its emotionally or physically or if he has even cheated at all. We've been together 26 years and I don't want my marriage to end. He trimmed down there, because he said it was too hot out and he was also doing it for me. Sorry, I should have also have said that he started his straying days early on, always claiming he couldnt get what he was needing at home, and emotionally supportive partner. If you need support or encouragement, let me know. I just felt he was having an affair because the way he acted towards me subtly changed. But, Im thoroughly confused as to why you are posting on this site. I tried to accept that and let it go, but time only made me more angry. All of this happened 2 years ago after we had our baby. Through the years I have heard many stories from co-workers about he and 2 of his close friends who chased women every weekend while in the bars, cheating over and over again. This is me, except Im accessible to his lies via email, phone bills, etc. I am unhappy to this day and cant get over what happened and will never trust him again. Draw on the resources you have, and dont let your husband steal away your spark. So frantically I called & text all night in to themorning & he didnt answer! I dont know what to do. Joy, freedom, and strength comes not from within, but from our Creator. Especially after I found out that I was pregnant with our 2nd son. Then from activity log I can see who he sent friend requests, who he deleted. You deserve to be loved! If you bluff your partner but they truly aren't cheating on you, you'll look quite foolish. I have done nothing to him ive never cheated on him never flirted with guys. We live with my parents currently and I know hes not happy here (my parents are not the easiest people to live with not to mention we pay half the bills and are pretty much stuck in one room) and lately I have had this feeling that he has cheated on me. I am very familiar with those opinions and philosophies too. It will help you to level your feelings and understand what you might want to do in regards to your marriage. Do you have someone to rely on for help and support? 7 different woman total BUT, multiple occasions with these woman over the course of the last 18 years. Women who think their husbands would never cheat are destroyed when they find out their husbands are lying about cheating. Then he still lied, about not seeing her. I just found out through pics on his phone and he said it was just porn. He did not know it was me, and we exchanged several explicit emails. I just dont know enough about your relationship or marriage to give you advice! It sounds like your husband is trying to hide his activities from you, and that you suspect he is cheating. he never gave me the answers i wanted so I never forgave. Yet he was earning nothing, in fact it was costing him to go to the office every day, money we didnt have, with a brand new baby to care for and yet as far as he is concerned, it is my fault. But you Teresa have not described any circumstances or evidence that leads me to think your husband is cheating. He gets mad if I bring her up, still denies it, and wont discuss it period. He admitted he called her the next day. Ive just finished writing a book about saying I love you, and one of the chapters is about rebuilding your marriage after an affair. Finding out she was having sex with him, just before our wedding and again after we got back from our honeymoon. How does he expect me to believe this story? And to all the women in fl beware of christy bowen she is know for being the other woman and I think she likes it. Hi Karen! I had phone records for 2 years that showed a pattern of them talking extensively on a constant basis seven days a week 24-7. His untruths are more frequent. They were constantly in touch throughout the 7 years I have been married. Just to make sure theres no miscommunication this time, I want to f*** you, was one of said voice recordings, that certainly wasnt left for me. He was wonderful. I confronted him about the texts and told him I wanted to end our relationship, but he is adamant that nothing actually happened (he admits to leading the girl on via text but maintains that nothing else ever happened between them). I was so deviated. You and I are worth more than that! His friend doesnt even live close to us. the fact that he lied about it? My thoughts and prayers are with you, Laurie .-= Laurie Pawlik-Kienlens last blog post10 Tips for Impressing a First Date by Cooking Dinner at Home =-. Any woman who knows her husband has cheated on her more than one time AND stays with him deserves what she gets. and he gets mad when i accuse him of cheating with her. That has been going on for a year. Yet, had the nerve to tell me he was going to the firehouse to get homework done, because our daughter was being a pain in the butt throwing a temper tantrum and he needed to concentrate. His answer is always the same youre the only woman I want, the only one I need. I honestly dont know how much more of this I can take and I really wish I could confront him about it all. My man has a child from another woman actually shes Russianthey both had that child before I came into his life. Unfortunately that need inside coupled with insecurity and weakness has created a flood of uncertainty in a good marriage or potential relationship. But here we are 4 months later, things have gotten much better but I still find myself afraid that its going to happen again, I wish for this feeling to all go away, i wish it never happened but it did. nothing .. just dont pay him any attention.. thats the best way .. one day he will see what he lost if he really loves u.. act as if u dont care what he is doing , go out with friends and have a good time .. i promise the thoughts are still there and u wish he was there .. Do U!! In such cases I think a Private Investigator can help you find out if your husband is cheating. Met woman on craigslist for sexting and video sex. All without an ounce of mean-spirited intent. Thats for yourself and for your children, if any. He then told me he kissed her, put his hands up her shirt, and made out with her. Paper conversation turned into i miss you and love you/ wanting you back i guess he wanted to feel wanted and needed by this women. Never. Well my situation continues to spiral downwards. This has made me just want to be dead. Im in counseling, and hes quit drinking. Thinking that I had known everything now and maybe we could be stronger, I married him. With someone . Good luck xxx. Then, after all these years of emotional and verbal abuse, I finally realized there was a name for someone like him. And had a sweet little one together. When hes home hes texting women all the time, I dont know who they are, Nither me nor my son gets to see him very often because hes always gone to work for weeks at a time which i find strange sence his boss lets him choose his own work schedule, and lately hes been working even more, so really we never see him. He has really changed for the worst. I miss it so much. The past 2 months my husband has been living in Missouri without me and our 2kids and one on the way. Ive been married 18 years and I have a suspicision but thats it.hopefully its nothing. I think you are 100% correct in wanting to end the relationship because you cant trust him. Found some odd emails in his phone tonight, so I clicked one and discovered that he had setup an account on a cheating website Ashley Madison. Now it has been almost a year that my husband do not show felings, he doesnt tell me he loves me, we dont do any kind of activity together. Baloney. When you ask people for advice, you are asking them to judge your situation. Then he eventually moved to where i lived. Youve caught him cheating three times. his answer will be i am disconnected with my feelings!! In this article, youll learn why men are men unfaithful and if infidelity be prevented. It broke my heart because I trusted him. She ask me things like should I still talk with or see him, should I tell the other woman to have a real chance with him, she thinks if she knew she would leave and then he could be with who he really loves, and should she see him after he is married? What should I do? How can i trust or get him to admit. A week later, because I found an unknown name in his address book of his email and asked him who it was, he confessed that it was the girl in that picture. I would imagine you want to leave him? I know you love him, but he is not treating you with love or respect. I dream about her weekly, the fighting with my husband is more frequent than ever. It says it is all my own problem and I need to fix it. Will this ever end? So, do you want to live with your husband the way he is right now? I found texts from a local number talking about hooking up. SO I CALED HIM AND WE TEXTED AND CALLED EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY. He runs his own company, and recently hired a bookkeeper at his company, I once saw a whatsapp message from the new lady (bookkeeper) to him with red lips (a kiss emoticon) when I confronted him about it, he said she again, sent another message apologizing about the mistake, that the message wasnt meant for him, I believed him. However, after he calmed down, he apologized and said he is not sick of me. When i confronted him about it he got so angry. Ive always have a gut feeling that my husband has cheated on me, but Ive never been able to prove it. Good luck. The ugliness must stop and you need help to stop it. pls anyone help me reply me. I know its embarrassing, but you need to take the proof you r come across and ask a friend or family member to help you tell your husband that he must leave. Trust me, there is a man for you. She said, they make a mistake. He lied black and blue that he was helping an older women after family catastrophe , we did marriage counseling and I have tried to move on. All innocence. ( son saw her coming out of the hotel room-claims his son was drunk so he is mistaken) I asked him to explain the pictures he said she was alone and he probable felt bad and chatted with herThe pictures depicted look like they were a couple////lies bother me, the truth would be so much easier to deal withhow do I get the truth? He held me for those hours too. When he messaged back saying, cant talk. Im sorry I cant offer personal advice or help. We separated july of 2011 and we just got back together october 2012 and i just found out he has a five month old baby. So I let go of it. Thats just one of the curious findings of a new study on the factors that predict infidelity. He was flirting with her basically saying he wished he had met her a few years earlier because he thought she looked hot. The messages were more or less saying what they wanted to do to each other and in his he had said if she wasnt married he would leave me tomorrow cos he loved her. To them the truth is a hallucination of a monster waiting to turn them into a rubble of shame. My hiusband claimed to me he had all these messages on his facebook from her, when i asked hm to show me he said no im not showing you anything, my defense was because your lying and there are no messages (Which the chick did tell me there are no messages- BUT how did my husband know that she has another facebook that isnt on his friends list) So yet again I snooped through his phone, the picture was deleted, and i even got to see his facebook, NO MESSAGES!!! Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them. I gave my husband sex for a while because I wanted to feel that I could satisfy him like the 20 year old lap dancers. i asked why he said that somebody at his office said he looked better with it off. I know the pain is deep when we lose trust in our husbands. I confronted him that morning, he was still in bed. And when I confront him, he said its not true and he never sent any of those messages. He denies it, but it is eating away at my heart and self-esteem. I cant predict the future but I know that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Then I realized that since he had a vasectomy, he probably didnt wear a condom. Well i have been married for 23 years and i thought we had a good run. If he wasnt happy, he should have suggested marriage counseling for you both rather than starting a relationship with someone else. I have no idea what to do! Believe me, he is feeding you a bunch of bunk. Different, young (mid 20s), easily disposable. And she said she thought so to until one day she asked to borrow his phone real quick, and he walked away for a quick second. Thank you, Once infidelity and that type of dishonesty occur in a relationship, it is difficult to ever feel secure or fully trust that person again. He made his choices. After few months passed i heard the mother of his 2 children is pregnant for him. 4. He went to have his testosterone checked and it was normal. But they like to act as if it didnt happen. I just cannot seem to grasp that. What do YOU think? Hi, Thank you! Heres what bothers me, one day he claimed to have stayed at class late and finished all his homework yet had homework to do. Most men say they wouldn't have an affair. I have started to ask if he is involeved with some other woman and the answer is always no, but i can not believe his answer, i just cant! I feel for your heart but Im guessing that at times.. its consuming you. Speaking of, he hadnt remembered my birthday in 5 years. He also stated that he just didnt know how to tell this girl to stop texting. I refused to abort and he would kick me on my stomach during pregnancy. I WORK AT A MEDICAL FACILITY AND THERE ARE CONSTRUCTION MEN IN AND OUT A VARIOUS TIMES. Hi, my husband and I have been married for a little over a year. Act like you are worth more than how he treats you. Forgive him. And most importantly stop accusing him and telling him everything you know. We have four kids, our youngest 8months old. Heres an article that may help you see your marriage and your husband more clearly: https://theadventurouswriter.com/quipstipsrelationships/how-do-you-know-if-he-really-loves-you/, Its called How to Know if He Really Loves You.. He comes home after work majority of the time but lately he has been pulling away from me, we are not as intimate as we used to be and he seems to not be as open with me ( with his feelings and just things in general) we used to tell each other everything. The kind of relationship that once i learned he didnt take daily responsibilities seriously, I began to do them as i felt it was my job in our marriage. Faithfulness is difficult for some but very do-able! Instead, confide in a close family member or friend, as they will be able to help advise you on what you should do in the future. I pray for you both as parents to your son, for unity and healing and connection. Never jump in a car and head to a friends house though, youll be in too much of an emotional state to drive safely. I accidentally stumbled across some updates. I was having a miscarriage at that time and I wasnt aware of it. Mistake #1: Launching an Investigation. I found romantic emails and lewd pictures only recently and since then Im trying to grapple with the reality of a cheating husband, whether or not I want to stay in the relationship and if so, how to work towards a better marriage, and if I decide to leave, get myself enough support and become financially stable for myself and my new born. THEY WILL BREAK YOUR HEART ! Whats your thoughts? I pray you find strength, wisdom and peace. Do you still love him and want him and want to work to keep it together? Is he cheating on me? I have been dating someone for 7 months. And he is dismissive lately of me, and impatient. If so, read on because this guide offers advice on the 10 things you should do immediately after finding out about this. Just as I am writing i am thinking of dropping the relationship coz I have a feeling I might not win this though i love him so much. if not ask your self that question is he realy commited to you ? I guess love really is blind, its just im on a fixed income i dont make much money, I get government help, but if I leave him, How on earth will me and my baby make it? Im newly married to a great man. My daughter just gave us a beautiful grandchild, however her husband has not been interested in her physically since she got pregnant. You do need some help!! Younger than our niece. Trust me, you are capable of more than youll ever know. and leaves office at 5.20 to 5.40 somtimes early . I am sure because his patience is now wearing thin from all my accusations and worries. This is not the first time that Ive caught him texting/ flirting with other women. You get what You allow. When I moved in to his house i really had no idea that his ex girlfriend live there too. it seems as the women, we are the ones trying to be right, do right and we get stabbed in the back. I no in my heart hes cheated but he wont admire it which I so want from him. The women are also either married or in long term relationships with men whom they love; just as I love my wife. They had been texting, talking on Facebook and God only knows what at work. My sister told me that she saw my husband with a classmate of mine 30 yrs ago. The points or theorys you have about men are some what true. He is a hard working man, hes absolutely wonderful with my girl, he is a great provider, my family loves him, he has never hit me or tried to hurt me in any way. I pray you find healing for the hurts that have been done to you, and I pray you find wisdom to leave people who dont treat you with love and respect. hi there. Mother nature tells me that its a good idea to have sex with lots of women. He jokes with me about things, nothing specific, but I just have this feeling that he hides talking to other girls from me. I do not know what to do. I feel like I have lived the past 15 years in hell with Satan himself!!! He swears im the only woman he loves and wants. If you are in a relationship like this one, trust me, save yourself and leave as soon as you can. But i have to let go.. Things were going okay, until we started bowling and my husband got a strike and they ended up giving each other a high five. OMG I know how you feel my Husband is a Pastor and I snooped and found out he meets women on a dating site and one lady he even gives her money. Asked him what he wanted the night before. I thought-what a coward. There is an direct correlation between the way husbands are treated by their wives and the odds of them cheating. If you really suspect him, you could consider following him. He is very much a go with the flow, take, take, take kind of person but polite in that manner to add to it. Its a perfectly natural ability to obtain and foster. Anyhow, any man that cheats while his partner is pregnant simply cannot be called a man. He is using you any way he can. If this man cheated already on his wife and currently cheating with you why would u think he would remain faithful in your relationship with him. He hasnt stopped going on craigslist even knowing about the STD and everytime I bring it up he just laughs at me and blows me off. (Well, I actually think the most important relationship is with God, but thats a whole different animal :-) ). When my husband returned I had every intention to confront him about it, but I just couldnt. I wish men would just be honest with their wives. he will leave home at 8 to8.30 like tat. Ive read emails and text messages my husband composed to someone. And Signs He Does, Why Do Guys Like Anal? Im personally doing some soul searching at the moment and making a contingency planeven if that means getting a storage unit to keep some belongings at for my son and I and leaving after he falls asleep. You dont need someone to tell you that you are right or acting appropriately. He has had a phone relationship. I hate to say this, but physical cheating (sex) isnt the only way a husband may betray his wife. Im not sure where to begin becuase there are so manny points. I am in a relationship with this guy for 7 years he recently start cheating on me. There is no excuse for infidelity of any kind. When I showed him, he would respond with, well you asked for that of course she is going to hurt you because you are pathetic to even think that of me. Or he wouldnt be working in counseling to work things out! Interesting note about the truth being encased in a misleading word structure apparently I never f***ing learn to leave his s*** alone, and that if I look Ill find it. I told myself that it would go back to the way it was. We went to marriage counseling for 2 months, he started to believe in God, would pray together.but has since stopped. Thankfully, She was saying no to him and saying that isnt being very faithful. And, even if you justified that and counted all the wonderful things about this guy and pointed out the amazing loss of a potentially wonderful friendship with him, you still identify the loss of his friendship as a risk. So is this the reason you are asking women who have suffered financial loss, emotional pain beyond words because you want to be sure to get a different perspective from women who have suffered so you can prevent yourself from making a mistake and taking an unnecessary risk? He says it was only sex never went out or talked about anything else but work, since she went to his company to make a project and that was how they met each other, then he finished the affair. i believe you got parents both meaning you and your husband, did you bring this matter to the elder espcially the divorce issue. For the past 4 years my husband has worked away from home only coming home on weekends. Driver calls this the belly button rule.When were telling the truth and are with people we like, admire, and trust, we face our belly buttons towards them. Knowing this my husband hurt me after all the hell Ive been through. Be happy. I dont know what to believe anymore! Its far more likely a view into his own bad personality and he would have cheated on you anyway. Period. Moved from my new job and came home. i just completed my first degree programme and i am so shy to tell anyone these problems cos my dad felt i was rather getting married way too early.i feel like i should go back to my dads house but i cant because my marriage ceremony was just the talk of town. You can be free, you can be healthy, you can learn to love again if you so choose. But I dont think she know about a woman name Cecilia a woman he been with for the past 9 years. He also took his wedding ring off and when I asked him why he said he was working on switches at work and left it in his car. Hes said before he wishes he left his girl friend before asking her to marry him but he wasnt sure if taking that chance of meeting me once would end as he would hope for it to be. Its on you at this point to get out of this. DO NOT be afraid to stand up for yourself or you may find yourself an old woman being cheated on and lied to and those are our golden years do not let him do you like that girlfrend :). We even got in to a fight about weed and alchol i dont have a problem with either one i smoke weed but i do not do any other drugs he asked me to stop because he doesnt like it. He has always needed attention from women, hes very friendly & flirty with women. Yesterday he had the nerve to ask me whats wrong because Ive been crazy emotional lately!!!!!! He tells me he has not done anything with them and so on. Now that hes back I assumed everything would be better. Apr 21, 2013. 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